Seattle-ish. Nerdfighter. Birder. Writer. Distracted person. INFP but oddly proud of the time I got INXX. Don’t believe in labels. Scorpio, obviously. Blogging (inconsistently) via hand-me-down handheld magic rectangle. A few fandoms. An often dark and/or unorthodox sense of humor. Body positivity. Semi-constant politics. Long, drawn-out, insufferably self-indulgent lists. Irony. Disregard for the definition of irony. Flagrant narcissism. Finland. Aspirations of traveling the world. Aspirations of changing the world. The motivation and wherewithal for neither. Stuff I find otherwise interesting. Ensuing chaos. Don't be a stranger~!
the gimmick blogs are like tumblr’s rogue gallery. yes we’ve got some heroes, yes we’ve got some villains, but more importantly if you look over here you will see some freak who devotes all their time to counting the number of “t’s” in a post
T Count: 15
Letter Count: 198
Your T Percentage: 7.58%
Average T Percentage: 6.95%
You used the letter T 1.09 times as much as average!
YOU EXIST???
Sometimes you create a guy and it turns out they already exist
It’s funny to me that I’ve met people named Grace, Faith, Patience and Chastity. It is so funny that Puritan names have survived so long and are still so popular if you take a step back and think about it. She’s getting Starbucks today and accusing a townsperson of witchcraft tomorrow.
AND DESTINY, I’ve met so many Destinys.
Nobody even chooses the COOL Puritan names like Punishment, Humiliation, Refuge, Relief, Obedience. And it’s always girls getting Puritan names nowadays. When am I going to see a baby boy named Submit To His Will.
Thats the name of an ex-fundamentalist kinky gay if ever I heard one
kinky evil former Puritan vampire
i found out i had a quaker cousin from the 1600s named Wrestling. as in, from the torah, Jacob’s wrestling with an angel. She also had a brother named Repentance and one of her sisters was named Fear.
Absolutely losing my mind over Love, Patience, Fear, Wrestling and fucking Jonathan
Lmfao as a religious trauma survivor and a product of Christian fundie indoctrination myself I am in full support of calling fandom wank “purity culture” and the use of the word “puriteen” as well actually.
It perfectly encompasses what purity culture was. It wasn’t just about “no sex before marriage”; it policed every fucking thing you did and forced you to walk on eggshells your entire life so your Magical Sky Daddy didn’t clutch His heavenly pearls at your naughty behaviours.
Holding hands with someone you weren’t married to? Gateway to sin. Making eyes at someone of the opposite sex? Gateway to sin. Thinking “impure” thoughts about someone else? Thoughtcrime Gateway to sin. Wearing the “wrong” type of clothes? Listening to the “wrong” kind of music? Having the “wrong” sort of values? Enjoying the “wrong” kind of media? All of it was seen as a stepping stone toward being a sinful godless heathen (and to some people it was essentially just as bad).
And it wasn’t enough to just avoid BadWrong Behaviours, either. In my ex-community you were expected to express your disapproval of it and be well versed in the theological how’s and whys. Does any of that sound familiar?
Purity culture at its core is so much more than “wear this purity ring and pinky promise to Jesus that you’ll never have sex until you’re married” and if you didn’t realise that while you were there you weren’t paying attention.
